How Can A Psychologist Help Me With Anger?


Anger is a natural human emotion that everyone experiences from time to time. However, for some people, anger can become overwhelming, leading to negative consequences in their personal and professional lives. If you find that your anger is causing problems in your life, a psychologist can help you gain control over your emotions and learn more productive ways to express yourself. It is important to understand that anger is not aggression, sometimes being afraid of the experience of anger can be a barrier to seeking help. There are often reasons for anger and understanding this can go a long way to managing the experience of anger.

Ways a psychologist can help

One of the ways a psychologist can help you with anger is by teaching you relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and visualization. These techniques can help you calm down when you feel yourself becoming angry and allow you to think more clearly and rationally.

Another way a psychologist can help you is by helping you identify the root causes of your anger. Often, anger is a response to an underlying issue such as stress, anxiety, or past traumas. By working with a psychologist to explore these issues, you can develop a better understanding of why you feel angry and learn more effective ways to cope with these underlying issues.

A psychologist can also teach you communication skills to help you express yourself in a more constructive way. This can include assertiveness training, conflict resolution skills, and active listening techniques. By improving your communication skills, you can express your needs and wants in a way that is more likely to be heard and respected by others, which can reduce your frustration and anger.

In addition, a psychologist can provide you with a safe and supportive environment to explore your emotions and experiences. This can help you gain insight into your thoughts and feelings and develop a greater sense of self-awareness. With greater self-awareness, you can learn to recognize the signs of anger and develop strategies to prevent it from escalating. 

Therapies such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) uses many of these techniques and has been shown to reduce anger (Beck  & Fernandez, 1998). If you are struggling with anger and it is negatively impacting your life, seeking the help of a psychologist can be a valuable step towards healing and growth. At the Centre for Clinical Psychology in Melbourne, our team of experienced psychologists specializes in helping individuals overcome a wide range of emotional and psychological challenges, including anger management. We are skilled in the use of CBT. To book an appointment, call us on 03 9077 0122 or visit our website Don’t let anger control your life – take the first step towards a happier, healthier you today.


Beck, R., & Fernandez, E. (1998). Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy in the Treatment of Anger: A Meta-Analysis. Cognitive Therapy & Research, 22(1), 63–74.